Relationships, to some people, are described as being the most beautiful things in the world. Love is something that everyone wants to find, or silently hopes they feel and come across. Sometimes love isn't as nice and sweet as people make it sound. Relationships are like a job. It takes a lot of hours and over time to make something work. Here is my relation between an office and a relationship.
Every object in the office has a specific job.
Every word or situation in a relationship is either positively or negatively affected by a situation.
Now when you get to work, you must always punch in the time clock right?
now depending on how many hours you dedicate to work you are going to see the "pay off" in your actual check.
Now in relationships you do not actually get a check, but you get rewarded with with efforts you contribute.
Every hour that you dedicate in being with your spouse, chick, girl, dude, jump off or whatever you want to call them, wifey, mistress, and all the above, the fact of the matter is that time helps build stronger bonds, and stronger connections.
*side bar* if you dont want your jump off or your side piece to catch feelings, dont spend the same amount of time with them as you do with you actual girlfriend or actual wifey...thats how they catch feelings, they start to think they can move up in the food chain and they start tryna take over*
But anyway, depending on the job you have, each office has a computer or a cash register to help document each transaction and store vital information that is helpful in the success in the relation, and in the job.
Now each job and relationship employee store and remember things that they want to. You can think that you had a great day at work, but your boss may believe that your job performance was horrible.
Your girlfriend might think you guys had the most romatic evening, but you could believe that it was by far the worst diner she ever cooked for you..lol..*trust me it happens*
Now the most important object on a desk, may be a stapler. It binds, holds and keeps things together.
Now for the relationship you can think of anything that can hold the relationship together for how ever long you want, need or simply desire. For instance, some may subsitute sex, music, dates and converstations to help bind the relationship. It might be a hobby that you are equally obessed with, ie. sneakers, cars, food and so forth.
Now depending on how many hours you put in at work, depends on how long your break is. Now i know when im at work, i mainly look forward to my lunch break. An entire hour to catch up on my emails, my text messages and my missed phone calls and voicemails. Now on this lunch break, you feel free, invigorated because no one will bother you for the entire duration of your break and you are just another person walking to get food, or going to enjoy your cig break.
..In my case, i 9 times out of 10 am not talkin to my boyfriend for my break, i usually end up talking to someone else or massively texting other people about plans for this weekend, or catching up on drama and jokes.
Just like a job, in relationships everyone needs a break, to do them. Feel human, some may want to go chill with their jumps their side piece etc. but many believe that they are entitled to hang with their girls, their fellas and let loose. For a moment think about themselves and what makes them happy outside of their current relationship.
If the job treats you right, you want to stay, no need to look for another job that pays better, or gives you the time off you requested without having to fight and argue for it.
Relationships are the same way. If it is as happy as people believe and think it is, then it will prosper and everyone will be happy.
(taking a break)
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